Annual review and reflection time!
This post is going to be published in several parts, because going on prior form, but also, I’ve been doing this for fourteen years – how can I stop now?!
For earlier “years in review” see here.
1. What did you do in 2023 that you’d never done before?
I can’t actually think of anything. Oh my, am I that boring?
2. Did you keep your 2023 new year’s resolutions, and will you make more for this year?
a. Reduce single use plastics by buying from bricks and mortar store, rather than online.
I stopped saving the soft plastics in December 2023 because I still hadn’t sorted out with the council an account with recycle smart, nor have I organized a collection pickup.
b. Be kinder to myself. Daily grateful moments
I think this fell by the wayside. In November, I started a new pocket diary (moleskine!) in which to record a sentence or two about what I was grateful for that day. This travels with me wherever I am, and seems to be working so far. Hint: do this daily, don’t save it up in a big lot because you’ll forget.
c) Failing that – no negativity in 2023!!
Nope.
For 2024: better budgeting! I basically don’t, and in 2023 I started looking at my bank account to see if month to month the balance had increased. That’s about it. I don’t know how much of my money goes towards essentials (and how many of those essentials are actually essential!). Let’s adult!
3. Did anyone close to you give birth?
No.
4. Did anyone close to you pass away?
Probably the biggest shock to me was the death of Tina Turner. I felt like she was an immortal – how could she pass away? At the time, the musical Tina! had just opened in Sydney.
5. What countries did you visit?
Taiwan. We love the place. A new town that we visited was Keelung.
New towns/villages in Australia visited in 2023: None.
6. What would you like to have next year that you lacked in this one?
In 2022 I said: “Space! I have too many partially completed projects. One of them includes buckets of honey (& leftover honey detritus) from pre-2020. Sitting in my living room. My bees died in January 2020, and so this is stuff left over from about November 2019. Let’s reclaim that space back.”
2023: the honey buckets are still there. Oh dear.
In 2022 I said: “More garden harvests/garden time.”
2023: I recorded more of my harvests… so at least I know how much I grew? Even if I haven’t managed to tell keep you, dear reader, up to date. I have a photo somewhere. Rather than just a generic statement “I grew a whole bunch of cherry tomatoes”, at least now I have a record of what I have grown in 2023. Partial success.
So what do I want from 2024? Memories. I cannot remember yesterday, let alone last week or last month. So I think I need to be a bit more in the moment and impress that upon my memory at the time. And time! This reflection diary also helps with that.
7. What dates from this year will remain etched upon your memory?
First international flight Australia to Taiwan in what felt like forever (four years, since 2019). I had forgotten what it was like to travel internationally, but then slipped into the groove once we were there. As an example, I brought along my reusable coffee cup – which barely got used. The climate was too hot for coffee! Instead I should have brought along a reusable milkshake cup – I got so many bubble teas/boba teas when I was there, because it was so hot. And yes I did feel guilty about the plastic. In Taiwan the government has instituted a NT5 (20c AUD) discount if you bring your own cup, with I think a gradual phase out of the disposal cup. (https://www.taipeitimes.com/News/taiwan/archives/2022/04/28/2003777367) Next time I visit, I will bring my own 500mL cup to use as a (small) boba tea cup. I can brew coffee using the milkshake cup, but cannot get boba tea in a coffee cup. Saying that though, 500ml is small for boba tea in Taiwan, and is sometimes too small – the “small” is 700/750ml!
8. What was your biggest achievement of the year?
I think my regular harvest monday posts. I made it to November 2023, and the post for December 2023 is in draft.
I know I meditated throughout 2023, and as of 26 January 2024 I had achieved an 80 day streak of meditating everyday.
9. What was your biggest failure?
Not living life in the moment. Scattergun approach to everything. Finishing tasks, everything seems to be in a state of not-done.